When parents reach a certain age, they may need to consider a transition to senior living. But as children, how can we help our parents make the right choice and make this transition with as little stress and anxiety as possible?
The prospect of transitioning from living independently in their own home to moving into a senior living facility can be daunting for many seniors. This important decision intimately involves their daily lives and care, making it an emotionally exhausting experience.
For families looking to ensure that their elders feel supported while exploring the available options, there are certain steps that can guide them through this process.
Show Empathy
When helping a parent make the transition to senior living, it is important to show empathy. This can be difficult, especially if you are feeling overwhelmed or frustrated with the process. However, it is essential to remember that your parent is likely feeling scared and uncertain about this major life change.
It can be helpful to talk openly and honestly about their feelings and concerns. Ask them questions about what they are looking for in a senior living community and listen to their answers. Showing that you understand and care about their feelings can help make the transition easier.
Be Patient
Making the transition to senior living can be a long process, so it is important to be patient. It may take some time for your parent to adjust to the idea of moving into a new home and leaving behind familiar surroundings.
Be Organized
When helping your parent make the transition to senior living, it is important to be organized. Create a list of tasks that need to be completed and prioritize them according to importance. This will help ensure that everything gets done in a timely manner. Additionally, it can be helpful to create a timeline for when each task needs to be completed.
Keep Them Involved
The best way to ensure that your parents are comfortable while staying in an assisted living facility is to involve them in the decision-making process as early as possible. When you’re helping them make decisions about where to move, you can start off by talking about what they want out of the experience. You might discuss how many hours per week they want to spend doing things like cooking, cleaning, socializing, etc., and whether they prefer to do those activities independently or with assistance.
As much as possible, involve them in the research and tours. They may feel discouraged and become disengaged from the process because they don’t know anything about the place they’re considering. So, talk to them about what they want out of the experience.
Help with Downsizing
Downsizing can be a difficult process for many seniors, especially if they have lived in the same home for a long time. When helping your parent make the transition to senior living, it is important to provide assistance with downsizing. This may include helping them sort through their belongings and deciding what to keep and what to donate or discard.
It can also be helpful to create a plan for how to store and transport their belongings. This will help make the transition smoother and less stressful.
Make it Homey
Decorating can be a great way to help seniors feel comfortable in their new surroundings. If your parent loves flowers, consider bringing some plants inside. You can also bring items from home that remind them of happier times. This could include photos, artwork, or even a favorite blanket.
Expect an Adjustment Period
Adjusting to life in a retirement community can be exciting, frightening, or a little of each. It is important to remember that it may take some time for your parent to adjust to their new home. Be patient and understanding during this period, and be sure to check in with them regularly.
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